i opened a 16th birthday invitation today. much to my surprise, at the bottom right is the sentence "WE PREFER MONETARY GIFTS". uhhhmmm, am i being too old-fashioned to think that this is downright rude?
so, i googled my query and i found out that it is indeed rude. although the article talks about wedding gifts, i believe that the circumstances are similar....
"It is considered bad manners for the bride and groom to mention anything in writing, such as placing a note in their invitations, indicating that they want monetary gifts, or where they are registered. It is presumptuous of the couple to tell guests what they expect or to imply that a gift is expected at all! Remember, this is not about the gifts or the money, this is a party celebrating your love and union, not a gift grab. xxx" www.classyannouncements.com
i don't feel like attending it anymore
